Formal dining rooms are making a comeback, but many homeowners are still stuck in outdated design habits that render these spaces unused and irrelevant. Interior designer John McClain argues that the key to a successful dining room is functionality, not formality —a lesson many are failing to learn.
The Rise of the Unused Room
For years, formal dining rooms were seen as relics of a bygone era. The shift toward open-plan living and casual lifestyles sidelined them. However, as homeowners seek more defined spaces, the formal dining room has re-emerged… often as a monument to impracticality.
McClain observes that families are still treating dining rooms like sacred spaces reserved for holidays instead of rooms meant for everyday use. This leads to unused square footage and a sense of disconnect from the rest of the home. The root causes, he says, include outdated traditions, social media comparisons, and the lingering belief that a dining room must be a “grown-up” space.
“When a space feels too precious, no one wants to set foot in it unless it is Thanksgiving. A dining room should feel like a place where you can actually enjoy dinner on a Tuesday, not a stage set for a once-a-year event.”
Function Over Form: Redefining the Space
The solution, according to McClain, is simple: design the dining room around your actual life, not an idealized one. This means ditching the overly formal decor and embracing multifunctionality.
One example he cites is a custom dining table that converts into a pool table. This eliminates the “off-limits” feel and transforms the room into a central hub for family activity. By prioritizing function over formality, homeowners can create spaces that are genuinely inviting and usable.
Practical Decorating Tips
McClain’s advice focuses on striking a balance between relaxed modern living and special occasion entertaining.
- Comfort is key : Choose furniture and lighting that create a welcoming atmosphere.
- Embrace versatility : Consider how the room can adapt to different needs, such as homework, crafting, or remote work.
- Ditch the intimidation factor : Avoid excessive decor that makes the space feel untouchable.
Ultimately, a dining room should be a place where families gather and enjoy meals without feeling like they’re walking into a museum. Redefining the space with functionality in mind is the only way to ensure it remains relevant in modern homes.
